Sorry I have been off the blog for a bit lately and not really sure why? I had made a pack with myself that I was going to write at least weekly and I was doing ok for a while there and then off the bandwagon I fell!!!
We have had my brother and his family over from Perth so that has been great for me and the little man to spend some time with my three nephews as well as brother and sister in law. The little man was on the phone the other weekend to my aunt and he said to her “my brothers and cousins are coming to visit me”, they are his cousins but he refers to them as his brothers even though they aren’t. He doesn’t even refer to his half siblings as siblings at all?!?!
When they arrived on Saturday night he was so excited to see them all he was squealing with delight and then I had to put him back to bed! All went well though and the next morning there was lots of chatter amongst them all. My eldest nephew is 12, then 10 and 4 so there is a big age gap with the older two and only 14 months between the youngest and the little man.
We got a photo of them all on the couch and they are a pretty spunky lot of boys – biased I know…..
We then had dinner with them last Thursday night and the little man was a bit feral as he’d been at his dad’s all day and over tired as well as getting dropped off 37 minutes late which all added up. Anyway we all survived dinner and the younger two were lucky enough to score a smartie cookie for dessert.
I missed the cutest image but I wouldn’t have shown up in a photo of the two cheeky monkeys above shaking their tail feathers to the music playing in the café! We were all in hysterics and they thought they were pretty good getting all the attention from us.
I couldn’t ask for a better family and neither could the little man as they all get along so well considering three of them live on the other side of the country.
The other day I decided I really should open the present that the little man received from his cousins in WA. As we live in a smallish two bedroom unit therefore space is not high on the list of positives about this place. It was fine before a beautiful now three year old came into my life, now it is over run with his dump trucks, bikes and copious toys in general. Anyhoo thought it was time to pull out the indoor pirate tent. Upon realising how easy it is to assemble or pack away I should have opened it long before March!
He played in it the first couple of days and even wanted to sleep in there but hasn’t really touched it since; mind you it is up next to the tv so forefront in his eye sight. Might be time to put it away I think as my motto is if not used put it away.
Next thing I really want to ‘put away’ is his train table as I could then set up his bedroom to resemble a bedroom and maybe even attempt a theme.
There are two people in my life that I miss the most at the moment. They are my brother and my best friend Babe.
My brother lives in Perth and there are times I miss him desperately and need his shoulder to cry on and for his reassuring words. He sees things from a different point of view to me, which I need at times. As much as we had our differences growing up, as soon as he moved out things took a change for the better, and as we have gotten older even better. I wish at times so much that he and his gorgeous family didn’t live so far away as I miss them all terribly and would have loved for the little man to have grown up with his only cousins. I talk about/refer to them all the time and the other day he said his three cousins were his brothers and best friends. Talk about making my heart swell and break at the same time. I need my brother more than I’ll Iever admit to him at this time in my life. Mind you he has done more than any sister could ever ask for, as well as his family, and for that I will be forever indebted to them and only hope my munchkin will realise how important his family is in the future.
The second person is Babe. I met her at university and we clicked when we did our industrial year and have never looked backed! We lived together for two years and everybody said we would not be friends at the end, well 17 years later we are still as close as ever; even though she lives in Singapore and I’m a tight arse with my phone. I asked her and her husband to be guardians for my little man in my will and I would do anything to have her back in Melbourne where I could go to her house and drink copious amounts of wine and cry my heart out to her. Again, I miss you Babe more than I can put into words.
It’s hard having two people I want to see on a regular basis so far from me as they know me the best, the good and the bad!